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Thanksgiving Thoughts: Be Grateful for What We Have

by Derek Markham · 8 comments

Fall Sunset

After sharing a great meal with my family on Thanksgiving Day, I sat out by the fire on our back patio, thinking of what I was grateful for this year. I pondered the fact that our giving of thanks quickly becomes just the prelude to the extremely commercial shopping experience of our modern holiday season.

I pulled out the video camera and caught the essence of my thoughts to share with you here. In a nutshell, we here in the U.S. live by pretty high standards compared to a lot of the world, and I think we would all benefit by remembering that and being grateful for what we have.

Too often we are focused on stuff, and yet that stuff is just that: stuff. It won’t make us happier, it won’t make us more successful, and it won’t make us better husbands, wives, or parents. Let’s give thanks this holiday season for what we already enjoy: our family, our friends, our community, and the fact that our basic needs are always met.

Image: k4dordy at Flickr

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Sandy November 29, 2009 at 10:09 am

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I completely agree that we should really take a look at what this holiday season is really about. Spending time with family and building memories is far better that buying “stuff”. Last year we started a no gift xmas for the adults and a 1 gift rule for kids. We replaced that tradition with a cookie making event and what a difference it makes. We want to raise our daughter with this philosophy throughout the year and are brainstorming ways to kick-off her 1st birthday with a similar philosophy!

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Derek Markham November 29, 2009 at 10:18 am

The no-gift and 1 gift rule sound great – we did something similar one year as well, and now we try to keep it very simple.

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Earth Friendly Goodies November 29, 2009 at 9:53 am

One really sees the point of your message when you get ready to move to a new house – everyone collects so much stuff that we just put away in corners and don’t even remember we have. I feel a little better about it each time we bring several bags to Goodwill, but it still seems like an endless stream of stuff.
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Derek Markham November 29, 2009 at 10:17 am

Yes, we just moved recently, and think we could have gotten rid of so much more, even though at the time we had a hard time letting go.

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Aaron Shaw November 28, 2009 at 8:45 am

Amen Brother. Amen.

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Derek Neighbors November 26, 2009 at 11:09 pm

Excellent thoughts, thanks for sharing them.

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