3 Tips to Keep Your Marriage Alive

3 Tips to Keep Your Marriage Alive

When my best friend found out that her husband had an affair, her life just shattered. Of course, the sympathy goes out to her; but marriage is a two-way street—there must have been a bump along the way which made her husband take an illegal detour. I’m not making any excuses for her partner’s infidelity,… Read more

How to be a Better Husband: See the Big Picture

How to be a Better Husband: See the Big Picture

Sometimes focusing on the details is a good thing in a relationship, and a great skill to have, and sometimes it’s more of a distraction or a liability for us. When we get unbalanced, and can’t see the forest because there are too many trees in the way, it’s time to zoom out. There can… Read more

How to be a Better Husband: Touch Her

How to be a Better Husband: Touch Her

[This is the latest in a series I started called How to be a Better Husband, in which I take what doesn’t work in a relationship, turn it upside down and then apply it back to the marriage (along with my two cents). Because we aren’t really from Mars or Venus. We’re just humans who… Read more

Why Having Sex With Your Wife is More Important than Ever

Why Having Sex With Your Wife is More Important than Ever

Being in a relationship is an extremely challenging experience, yet also one of the most fulfilling. There are times when we find ourselves on top of the world, because our relationship with our wife is strong and close and supportive right then. And there are other times when we experience the reverse – we’re in… Read more

How to be a Better Husband: Make Time for Making Love

How to be a Better Husband: Make Time for Making Love

[This post is the latest in a series I’ve begun called How to be a Better Husband, in which I take what doesn’t work in a relationship, turn it upside down and then apply it back to the marriage. Because we aren’t really from Mars or Venus. We’re just Earthlings.] Most relationships start out with… Read more

How to be a Better Wife: Focus on the Positive

How to be a Better Wife: Focus on the Positive

After writing How to be a Better Husband: Show Up, I felt the need to jump onto the other side of the relationship, so to speak. It’s easy to find fault with our own self, or our own gender, and then to make fun of it, but it’s usually not cool to point out what the… Read more